Bro Koay
Kheng Hin
This is
the Christmas season so I am wondering if this message is appropriate. We sing
"Joy to the world" and here I am talking about the suffering servant.
But I believe after the message we will find Christmas even more meaningful.
I met
with a young man and when I say young he is about 40 and I say still young man.
He is an unbeliever and he said life is full of suffering.
As we
look into the Bible where man say life is suffering, to the religious tradition and
philosophers, they only touched on half
truths.
When we
look at life, there is no way it is just ups with no downs. Life is about
uncertainty. Sometimes that uncertainty can come through a visit to a doctor,
or a boss calling you into his room, or one fine day you go home and your wife
say I no longer can stay with you, or a call comes in and it bears bad news.
One day I
said this at a wake service. The one thing about the certainty of life is the
certainty of uncertainty. You cannot wake up one day and say you have your
future in your hands.
If you
know there are uncertainties in life, we know that good prosperous times will
be interjected with suffering and pain, we need to ask this question - if down
the line, we meet a challenge that challenges us, have we ever thought how we
will tackle it?
There are
3 ways people handle suffering.
One is
they fear suffering and they put it on the back
burner. They say it will happen to everyone but me. That is the fear of
suffering.
The
second one is they realise it will happen but
what to do? Suffer also suffer la because we are born to suffer.
And of
course there are those who say everything is an
illusion. You can say in so many ways pain is an illusion but when he
has a toothache he will know how real pain is.
How do
the children of God handle suffering?
Fear of
suffering is not the way. Denying it is also not it. I believe it is to embrace
suffering. Embrace suffering is not to want suffering. Not to wish for
suffering. If you do I'll send you to Lam Wah Ee psychiatric ward. Something is
seriously wrong with you if you look for suffering.
So what
is embracing suffering? To embrace is first and foremost to accept it and that
it is real and true. And we all do have a problem. But it does not stop there.
It is more than to accept it as reality. It is to go beyond acceptance but know
that we have victory over that suffering.
What is
the difference between a believer and an unbeliever that is not well? I had a
non-Christian friend who was unwell and the words that came out was he has no
hope. And why it happened to me? What can I do or look to alternative medicine?
You can see he is in despair.
But we
see some of our Christian friends who have also been unwell. And some say they
are fine. And they have peace and they have left their life in the hands of the
almighty God. And that God will pull him through. He is not well but he is
okay. It's true.
The child
of God has embraced his suffering and he also knows he will have victory.
My mother
is not well and she has gone for a review this morning. But my mother
encourages me more than I encourage her. She say don't worry so much. Every day
is a blessing from God. She is much more at rest than me. At times I also
suffer wondering. But she is an encouragement to me. Why? She has embraced that
life will have mortality. But in Christ she knows she has victory and the grace
of God is sufficient for her.
When we
go through a time of need, as children of God we run to God. Even unbelievers
will run to God but we run in the right direction.
Yes in
the time of need we look to God and come to Christ but what Christ do we see? A
Christ seated at the right hand of God and his deity in majesty or do we see
Christ in his perfect humanity.
As much
as he is the perfect God, he is at the same time the perfect man. When we say
Christ the Suffering servant we see Christ as the perfect man.
Isaiah 53:3
He was despised and rejected by men,
a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide
their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not.
Jesus was
a man of sorrow. He was like one where man hide from his face. He was despised.
That is our suffering Saviour.
Isaiah 53:4-5
Surely he took up our infirmities
and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him,
and afflicted.
5 But he was pierced for our
transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought
us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed.
Isaiah 53:6
We all, like sheep, have gone
astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the
iniquity of us all.
He
carried our sorrows. It was all for us. He was familiar with suffering and was
physically pierced.
Now we
want to look at the Christmas Story and see how it mirrors these verses. Here
we see Jesus just before going to the cross.
Matthew 26:38
Then he said to them, “My soul is
overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with
me.”
This is
the picture of a man in sorrow and suffering. The story tells us that Judas
came and betrayed Jesus to be arrested. How did Jesus addressed Judas? He
called him friend. Jesus faced betrayal from a man he has discipled for 3
years.
In Jesus
the man, his humanity is real. He hungers and thirst just like us, but Jesus
calls him friend. Judas sold Jesus for thirty pieces of silver which is the
worth of a slave. Jesus was betrayed.
Peter was
always the first to protect Jesus. But Jesus already knew. When Jesus was
arrested, Peter denied Jesus not once but three times. You must know how Jesus
feels.
Then came
the physical pain. If you saw the Passion of Christ, you'll know how it was. He
has both emotional and physical pain. Today's Star, an article says emotional
pain can sometimes be more hurtful than physical pain. A cut can heal but
emotional pain can last a lifetime.
I want to
tell you the feeling of being rejected is very real. Finally the straw that
would have broke the camel's back is this. Jesus throughout his life always had
the comfort of the Father's presence and the presence of the Holy Spirit. But
when the wrath of God came upon him, the presence was not felt by him.
Jesus
bore the pain of the cross physically, emotionally and spiritually alone. It is
the alone that is most difficult. That's why we have the befrienders. Having
someone that goes through with you makes a difference. Jesus died with a broken
heart. My God my God why have you forsaken me?
Jesus
could have called legions of angels to come rescue him. What kept him on the
cross? It was a demonstration of his love for us that kept him on the cross.
Even for those that mock at him or laugh at him. Jesus said father forgive them
for they know not what they do. Were they really ignorant? No. Some of those
there saw his miracles. The Pharisees were there and chose to crucify him with
their legalistic views. That was the grace of Christ our Lord to say forgive
them.
Jesus'
cries of anguish is a Christ that is poignant but also a tragic cry. Why have
you forsaken me? To an unbeliever, the cross seems to be a tragedy. That Good
Friday is not a good Friday. They see the cross as a tragedy. They saw an
innocent man being crucified. An innocent man condemned to crucifixion. But for
all of us we know. That the cross was a triumph. That in Jesus and in his
statement that it is finished, he is like a Phoenix that rises. His triumph was
completed when he rose again on the third day. As Christians we must understand
it was for us and the life of God and it was not a tragedy but a triumph for
God and for us. A triumph when the spoils were for us. But it was bought with
pain and suffering and blood. And we must not take the blood of Christ for
granted.
We now
inherit the wholesomeness as a child of God. It is because Jesus' body was
broken for us.
So now in
your time of need or suffering what do you do? Our God is there. Jesus already
died for you on the cross and he is there to provide, protect and to pull your
through.
- When you suffer Come to Jesus.
Hebrews 4:15
For we do not have a high priest who is
unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted
in every way, just as we are–yet
was without sin.
When you
suffer, remember He suffered even more. If you feel abandoned, He was abandoned
even more. Jesus is the ultimate empathiser.
If you
have a situation when your marriage goes through a problem, and you see a
friend who has a perfect marriage they may not know the pain you go through.
Empathising is someone who has spent time with people who has gone through what
you go through. But make sure they have victory over their situation. But more
so, come to Jesus. He knows what you go through. After Calvary, no one needs to
be alone in their pain. He is always there and he will draw towards us. We will
be enveloped by his love because he understands. When you talk to Christ and
come to him he emphasises with you.
- When suffering Look to Jesus
Hebrews 12:2-3
2 Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the
author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the
cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.
3 Consider him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will
not grow weary and lose heart.
Look to
Jesus like how Jesus looked up to heaven and said Father forgive them for they
know not what they do. That's how you can forgive those that hurt you. Some
people leave the church because of hurts. Learn to look to Jesus to forgive.
Some of
us don't like bosses that can talk but don't do. But those bosses that also do
and put their hands on the plough is different. There is nothing that the Lord
ask of you he has not done. When he say forgive, he has forgiven. When he say
sacrifice, he has sacrificed.
- When suffering He is an Enabler
Romans 8:37
No, in all these things we are more
than conquerors through him who loved us.
His life
for you will enable you to go through all of your suffering and pain. In the
meaningless of your suffering, you will be more than conquerors, when you
embrace your suffering in him.
Suffering
comes with the human condition. You will have victory over it and rise above
your suffering and there is a meaning attached to it. God uses it as you look
to God as Paul writes.
Romans 5:3
Not only so, but we also rejoice in
our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance;
Note that
we do not rejoice for suffering. We rejoice in our suffering. That's the
difference. Suffering produces perseverance. That's how God moulds you.
Character is moulded in the crucible of suffering.
James 1:2-4
2 Consider it pure joy, my brothers,
whenever you face trials of many kinds, 3 because you know that the testing of
your faith develops perseverance. 4 Perseverance must finish its work so that
you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
Maturity
comes though suffering. That is spiritual maturity. But today it is twisted.
There are those who says if you believe in Jesus you'll be prosperous. So the
bigger your car, the more spiritual you are. They have a mistaken identity of
the God they worship. They worship the god of prosperity and they call him
Jesus. Or they say if you are a Christian you should not suffer. Again, they
have a mistaken identity of the God they worship. Suffering is real, and Jesus
went through it so will we.
As Christians we are more than conquerors in our suffering with Jesus. When you have Jesus, it is enough. For his grace is sufficient for you.
As Christians we are more than conquerors in our suffering with Jesus. When you have Jesus, it is enough. For his grace is sufficient for you.
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